Lifestyle Forum's Journal
Monday, May 11, 2009
2:29PM - Seeking Uncle
I'm sort of unsure where to post this, but I assume here is ok, if not i will delete.
My daddy and I our looking for an uncle (a straight male) to add to our play. Daddy is Dom, I am sub. We are into a little age play, D/s and basically considered "kinky". I'm in my 20s, and hes about to be 30. We live together in northern Ohio, near Cleveland and have been together 9 years. We are looking for IRL and you'd have to be looking for the same ;p
It's probably best to reach me through Livejournal messages or my e-mail: firstname.lastname@example.org
Sunday, April 13, 2008
62 Days left until we over run the campground for The one, and only Spank Festival! Join us for the Midwests Premier Camping Event! Registration currently includes attendees from the states of: Indiana, Wisconsin, Illinois, Kentucky, New York, California, Iowa, Missouri, and Ohio!
June 19th-22nd, 2008
We'd like to welcome Miss Vice to the expanding list of presenters at Spank Festival.
Ms. Vice is a fiber installation artist and a private art instructor. She has been a part of the Chicago BDSM scene for 10 years. She has organized scene events at SpyBar, LRA, Berlin Night Club, and at numerous private dungeons. She is a food fetishist, specializing in creative presentation on naked submissives for public consumption. She was a Midwest Area Pony-play (MAP) event organizer and was The Next Generation Chicago (TNGC) educational SEDS coordinator .She has presented different topics-including Animal Transformation and Role-play, The BDSM Dating Game, Service Submission Position Training, and Kink on A Budget: Perverting Ordinary Objects.
“How to Take Her Breath Away: Oxygen and Blood Flow Play” - Jim & Jerith
“Humiliation & Degradation” Wilson & Lora
Raw Rope “Tie em up and Fuck Em' – Graydancer
“Mind Fucks: The Tricks to Tricking Your Submissive” - Jim & Jerith
“Swinging and Swapping 101” -The Ultimates
“Manipulating Those Jewels CBT 101” - Miss Simone
“Erotic Wrestling” - Spike/Lancelot
“Spirit, Energy, and Psychology of BDSM” -Sheryn B
“Labels, Roles, Definitions And Negotiations” -vield Bear
“Falling Into Non-Monogamy” -Cunning Minx
“Being Single In The Scene & How To Find Good Play” - Kirby
Many more on the website, and more being added daily!
Spank Festival will be offering two tracks of education. 'BDSM and All Things Kinky' and 'Sexuality'.
Presenters are being added as they confirm, so check the presenters page often!
Join us at www.spankfestival.com. The official website for the one and only Spank Festival, as well as
Registration is open! Your registration includes all the fun activities, classes, and offerings:
Meet N Greet Dinner - Cock 'n Tail Party (Let us feed you!)
The Exploratorium – All the things you've ALWAYS wanted to try.
Carnivale Party of Debauchery (Free drinks!)
Camping Space ( And electric for the first 75 sites)
5000 Sq Ft Dungeon with custom designed furniture
All Workshops, Demos, Presentations
60 Wooded acres in which to frolic and play.
Sensational Orgy Space
Bonfire (Naked S'mores!)
Gnome News An anonymous source close to the internal investigation reveals multiple sightings. While these sightings have yet to be corroborated, they are indeed quite suspicious. A “very-short red-capped gent” allegedly purchased a total of 57 riding crops at regional Farm and Fleet stores. A store representative tearfully shares the stress in maintaining riding crop (and other equestrian) stock on the shelves in this desperate time. The dastardly little suspect *may*also have been seen in the company of a leather clad bunch of hooligans. Be on the lookout one and all for this dangerous yet jaunty little fellow!
Come and join us and see what's new at Spank Festival!
© 2007 SPANK Wisconsin's Fetish Playground
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Thursday, December 6, 2007
10:50AM - wanna be a fetish writer?
I found out that Socialkink.com is looking for writers to contribute to their exclusives section. They need writers to review fetish movies and to write about general Lifestyle topics.
I'm not sure if any of you would be interested, but I thought this might be a good place to repost this:
"Wanna be a Writer for Social Kink?
Do you have a penchant for penmanship? Would you like to review Fetish movies? Can you tackle topics about the lifestyle in general?
Social Kink is looking for writers to contribute to our Exclusives. If you are interested please send Nancy Wilson (Nancy_Wilson@aebn.net) a 200 word writing sample as soon as possible!"
Saturday, August 11, 2007
9:44PM - changes
i just made my journal public, feel free to read.. My Sir passed away 6/8/07. i am feeling like a very lost girl right about now...
Tuesday, March 6, 2007
9:10PM - UK Fetish Scene
Hello kinksters. :)
I'd been looking around for a while for a UK-based BDSM/Fetish community here on livejournal (something similar to LondonFetishScene.com, but for LJ) and I couldn't find one. Lots of generic BDSM comms, a couple kink-specific comms, and one or two area-specific comms, but none for the UK.
So... in light of this, I created ukfetishscene.
A snippit from the userinfo:
- In this community you can:
- Meet like-minded people and make friends
- Advertise your BDSM and Fetish-related goods/wares/stores/clubs/websites/etc...
- Share and discuss recent news and developments concerning the UK Fetish Scene
- Talk about UK-based BDSM/Fetish clubs and events and arrange possible meet-ups
- Share photos and stories with the community and much more...
Go check it out, join, pass the word onto your friends. And most importantly, have fun. :)
Monday, July 24, 2006
Hello all, hope you don't mind me posting here but I feel this is relevant to all people with alternative sexualities. There is currently a very real threat to the viewing of ‘extreme’ pornography in the UK. How many films or photographs do you possess in print or on your hard drive of people in bondage, being flogged or whipped, pissing, etc? If proposed government legislation goes through then you may be convicted, sent to prison for 3 years and put on the Sex Offenders Register – even if the images are acted and consensual.
Concerned? You should be! It is vital that we act NOW to stop this ridiculous legislation – it will be almost impossible once it is introduced to do anything about it and you may find that many of your favourite LiveJournal communities and adult websites are blocked. It may also mean the end of Bizarre magazine and BMEzine.
Join the Backlash UK LiveJournal community so you keep stay informed at the progress of the legislation backlashuk_org. Here you will find details of the legislation and how you can help. This DOES affect you. Even images of you and your sexual partner engaging in certain adult acts are included in this legislation.
Backlash is an alliance of diverse groups, representing tens of thousands of British people, campaigning against the government's proposed new legislation to outlaw the possession of "extreme pornographic material".
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x-posted a lot because it’s important!
Friday, June 30, 2006
I've been feeling pretty tired lately. However, I knew mouse had been waiting for me to get home from work. She was "in the mood." After my arrival, I went outside to smoke a cigarette on the front porch. When I came in the house, she had went upstairs. I climbed the stairs, went down the hallway and entered the bedroom. What a beautiful site. mouse had used the velcro teathers and strapped herself spread eagle on the bed. Naked and waiting for my touch ...
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
11:47PM - An intro
I don't think i've ever really posted to this forum with an introduction. I'm sorry for that, feel bad for joining and not taking the time to at least say Boo. So...Boo!
I'm a lesbian sub or bottom living in the NJ....and i also happen to have a mental illness.
Monday, January 9, 2006
Thursday, January 5, 2006
2:46PM - short intro and a question
Hello, all; I'm 26 and am just coming into the lifestyle as a submissive. I have a dom interested in meeting me this Friday for discussion and play, but ( cut for details, and needing your honest opinionCollapse )
Thanks for your time.
Tuesday, November 15, 2005
9:39AM - Intro
babalon_it mentioned that she was now the maintainer of this community, so I thought I would check it out and introduce myself.
Hi. I'm chgowiz - my girl is bdprincess. I guess you could call us "lifestylers" although with kids, 2 jobs each, bills, house, stock car racing team and only 24 hours in the day, it's more of the background and fabric than the in your face stuff. It's hard to draw definitions around people who happily admit they threw out the "Official BDSM rulebook" and instead created their relationship from what they needed/wanted.
Friday, November 11, 2005
10:09AM - The Communication Decency Act
Some sad news: We have decided to temporarily take our web site off-line due to the uncertain political climate with the Communication Decency Act, here in the United States. Although our site neither contains explicit photographs, videos, nor writings; at this point, no clear precedent has been set. The uncertainty in these matters, has forced us to this unfortunate decision.
You can read more about the Communication Decency Act and related issues at the following web sites:
We would very much appreciate that if any of you have more information on these matters to keep us informed. We would like to put our web site back online as soon as possible.
Thursday, October 20, 2005
over the past 2 years, Master Paul and i have gone through some serious changes. most of them revolve around my family (the loss of two sisters and the adoption of my nephew) our schedules have changed and our time together has not been consistant still, our relationship is strong and has not encountered problems.
i haven't often posted to this community and that is wrong. i joined it because i wanted to communicate with others who had found thew wonders of a D/s lifestyle. i wanted to exchange ideas and get to know people.. i haven't done that, but (with this post) i am hoping that will change.
my name is cynthia. i am collared and owned by a wonderful Master.
i would like to share these thoughts with this community and if anyone has any comments... please feel free to jump in....
this is what i believe.....
over the past 5 1/2 years that Master & i have been one, i have had many opportunities to reflect on life; more specifically my life. recently i have made some observations and realize the following to be true.
while i have come to believe that i was born to be a slave, i believe that others are also born in the same way. i believe that it is, and has always been, my destiny to serve.
my observation reminds me that, while i may have been born to be a slave, my destiny could not be fulfilled without one who was born to control.
furthermore, i believe that He was born to be Master; owner and trainer of slave(s).
i believe that, without Him there would be no me. to clarify, without Him to teach me, guide me and own me, my destiny of service would not have been realized.
yes, there are others out in the world would could have found me. yes, perhaps they could have taught me some things, perhaps even tapped into my submissive soul, but i don't believe i would or could have reached this place of total peace without Master Paul to guide me.
i believe the depth of our relationship, our Master/slave bond, to be incredible. i fully believe that we can "go anywhere" and accomplish anything our minds can conceive of. i believe any limits we might have "had" when we first met have been wiped out by our absolute trust in each other.
i beleive that, while a slave might be able to serve any Master/dominant, she/he can only truely be owned by one. once that relationship has been established, once the bond has been formed, it will last a lifetime. regardless of where life might lead, there will always be a connection that will keep Master and slave a part of each other for life.
Master Paul has found my soul. He has helped me to find my dream. He has given me a life of contentment and happiness. regardless of "everyday stresses" of life, i am happy, i am content and i am balanced. no more "missing pieces"; He has found them all.
when i think about the direction i was headed in, before He found me, i shake my head in disbelief. without Him, i would have been just like any number of submissives out there, playing the game, touching the edge, but never trusting enough to completely let go and find ecstasy!
i am truely blessed. i have been given the ability to live as i was born to. owned, protected, loved, used... as a slave should be.
i am forever thankful for the gifts He has given me.
Thursday, September 29, 2005
4:19PM - My Introduction
I'm new to this community and wanted to take this opportunity to introduce myself to everyone.
I am a 23 year old boi (lesbian woman with masculine traits/behaviors) from Miami. I've wandered into this community as an effort to learn more about this lifestyle. The past few years have been a journey of self-discovery for me and I've come to learn/accept so much about myself. I don't label myself as dominant due to the fact that I know very little about this lifestyle and am not presumptuous. All I can say is that I feel there are dominant traits that I hold and am interested in learning more about.
A good friend who is active in the life, suggested I do a lot of reading on the subject in order for me to gain a better understanding on things. I've done my share of reading and feel comfortable with this lifestyle and am sure it's more than a curiosity - so this has led me here.
This is my first step into the life and I'm eager to get to know everyone. I'm very respectful and hope that you, the community, don't mind having me jump in. I know I have little experience or knowledge to share about this lifestyle. However, I do hope to learn all I can. So on that note, I will conclude my intro.
Feel free to ask me any questions you may have, I'm an open book.
Thursday, September 15, 2005
5:36PM - First Post
Tuesday, September 6, 2005
Thanks to shadowsslave for letting me help out here. I hope you'll all find my style of moderation very non-intrusive and laid back.
I figured that I should introduce myself, for those who don't know me, or those who thinks that they do. I wrote this originally in 9/03 and posted it in a series of four parts.
It's long, slightly dated, probably better in four parts, and in need of a rewrite. :P
DH = my master/husband.
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